“There are some things money can’t buy, for everything else there is a master card&rdquo...
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“There are some things money can’t buy, for everything else there is a master card”. I love the string of ads based on this one liner by master card. I like the simplicity of the phrase and yet so meaningful and deep. It is so true that any human being at any given point in time is always running after more and more money. It is amazing how we keep wanting for more and never feel the contentment from what we have. I hear stories all around me about people who have loads of money and yet are not very happy. People who are very successful and yet don’t know what to do with the money. People who work so hard to build an empire and then give it all away. Is it worthwhile to say that those who have money, don’t value it as much as those who don’t have and aspire all their lives to have more. Does money give them the security that they are looking for in life or does it just give us the status that we need for ourselves? It would be foolish on my part to say that I don’t need more money but definitely there is a limit to define contentment. After all at the end of the day what matters the most is about being happy from the inside. It is scary to hear stories about the insecurities that rise because of more money and the sleepless nights one spends to make things believable the next day for the business to keep running.
Recently I attended a seminar where the speaker talked about how having more money has made his life so easier. He spoke about how he had a dream of seeing his parents retired by the age of 60 and not by 65 because he felt the need to do something for them. He worked hard and is very successful today and the major content he has in life is that his dream of his parents retiring did come true. He randomly chose people from the audience to talk about their dreams. There was this lady in early 30s who also had a dream and on her dream everyone had a hearty laugh. When asked what her dream in life is, she said “My dream is to walk into a store and shop for whatever I feel like without looking at the price tags”. It is a paradox that at one point where we see billionaires being unhappy in their lives as they feel money hasn’t bought them happiness yet; there is still a horde of people who strongly feel the need for more. And ofcourse the more is always the beginning but not an end. In the recent past, I also did get a chance to meet a person whose mansion is an inspiration in itself to own a home like that one day. He throws a lot of parties every other day and out of curiosity I did ask him the reason for the same. He says “I don’t know what to do with so much money and these parties take away the loneliness in life”. It might be as a joke he mentioned that but then it is the harsh reality for most of the rich and famous. I guess you pay the price for being rich. One heck of a price to pay but after all they have the money to pay. So do I want a peaceful sleep after a long day of work or would I rather have the money to buy whatever I can? I don’t know but one thing is for sure I choose happiness, fun, excitement over the green paper. And as long as I can do my own thing in my very own small and special ways I am happy but that would definitely not mean that I don’t want to have some more. Isn’t life all about craving for more? After all, like that woman even I love to shop till I drop. Thus, the question still remains whether it is “good to live your whole life with pocket money or have 'that some more' money in your pocket?”
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Wowwwwww DTE... bore me..???? nt at all.. infact i luveddd ur thoughtsss... itzzz straight frm d heart n jst d wayy i thnkkk...

yeahhh i guess d parentsss have d beatinnn wennn thyyy kp savin for their kidsss... i thnkk itz wit every generationnnn..
i knww one needss to be self contended bt at d same timeee shud have tat little money tucked in smwhr for emergenciess...
brilliantly summed up DTE.. lovedd itt n appreciate it.. thx for ur lovely thoughts...
rgds
Bhavna
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dear bhavna,
hmm age old question? nice write up!!
it is difficult to do but it is not impossible, i tried this with my two sons from the time they were toddlers... i would ask them to differentiate between the "need" and the "want" especially during the christsmas season, of course my younger son started using the word "need" more often!!! and of course he did not get all "his needs"!!! was trying to outsmart mom!!
as there is no end to wants... thus never ending desires.... resulting in absence of content.... leading to the devouring greed..........which causes all the restlessness and unhappiness
money per se is not the culprit, it is that love for money that leads to all the problems.
i would say it is always good to have a little in the bank and some change in the pocket....... so that one could enjoy that icecream bar with loved ones every now and then; while looking toward a happy future as he/she has some money saved for the rainy day .....
hey i learned this from my parents though there is a slight difference ... i think i am enjoying my life more than they did because they saved more for their kids and spent little on themselves!!
hope i did not bore you, that is my take on money..... thoda bachao thoda kharcho, iske liye thoda+thoda to hona hi chahiye!!!
dte
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Wow Raj Sir... u have so beautifully summarisedddddddd the write up... heheheheh.. :)) thx u for ur recco too.. :)
rgds
Bhavna
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a balanced life is good, bhavna14 - a good balance in our emotions and relationships, and a good bank balance too...

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Dear Chanchal ji,
I think you have put it very truly & simply. Everyone says money is not everything but it definitely is very crucial for humble & peaceful living. I couldn't have agreed less on that.. :)
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Bhavna
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Dear Bhavna
To Me, a retired fellow, money is not everything, but money is the most important factor of my life.
Since I have now fixed income without any dearness Allowance and I have to fend myself against rising inflation which is now double than last year. Now, from where this extra money will come to fend against inflation.
My dignity and self respect do not allow me to ask or accept any help from my sons, though they are very understanding and willing.
It is an important factor of my life to make both ends meet. And for that I Have to curtail some little joy of life.
My best wishes
Chanchal
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Thanks Dr Madhvi for your comment and i did read your blog. It certainly is a dicey topic and the irony is you never know which part of it is right and which is wrong.
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Bhavna
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good one...well said....money is a dicey topic...everyone has a different take on it..... I said so, long time back in one of my blogs...MONEY MATTERS.
have a nice day
madhvi
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